TO THE MAN WHO OWNS MY HEART ❤️

  To the man who owns my heart, I thought of you again last night before drifting off to sleep. I don’t know why no matter what I do, I can’t stop thinking about you. I remember the first day we met, I fell in love with you because I saw something in you that I cannot see with someone.. or something else. You are patient, kind, slow to anger, generous and something that struck me.. you never keep record of my wrongs. I can never out-give you. Everything that I do is nothing compared to what you’ve done. A lot of times I ask, “Who am I that you are mindful of?” “What can I do to give back all the undeserved love?” But I always get the same reply, ”I loved you first. To let me in your heart is more than enough.“ The years with you are the best years of my life. You don’t know how healthier my heart gets every time I pour out all my thoughts on you. Unlike other friends of mine, you listen without judgement. And you know how sneaky you are? You let me decide on my own yet you would do things to protect me from any harm that my decisions would lead me to! That annoyed me at first but I learned to appreciate it as our relationship gets deeper. A lot of times we argue over things and stuff. I want to go left, you are always right. I want to do this and that, but you would disapprove. Our fights are always short though because usually I would end up heartbroken whenever I follow what I want. Thing is, you never fail to catch me every time I fall. I always end up thanking you for interceding. I remember when you first called me “my beloved” after my first heartbreak.. I felt so loved. I was shattered having been betrayed but your words assure me that you are with me. You will never leave me nor forsake me no matter how worse things get. Above all, you will love me no matter how worse I become. Your unconditional love melts my heart in awe. You even said, “I will make you my bride forever.” Your love perseveres. You were faithful, though I am not. You didn’t let me go even if a lot of times I pushed you away. You’re not like the rest who would step out of my life and wait for me to reach out. You are always the one who would do the first move, though I know you were hurt for my mistakes.  Now I know that one day, I will get married and will have kids. I want my husband-to-be to know you too. Not just know you, but have the same relationship that I have with you. To recognize that you are the center of it all and our lives are meaningless without you. I want a worshiping family. Someday we will see each other face to face and you will ask me, “What did you do with the life I gave you?”. God, you own my heart, my life.. I want to be able to answer You that day…I want my list to be long enough! I want You to be proud of me and tell me, “Well done!”  And I guess no matter how far I run away, I will end up with You..because my soul was made to yearn..for You! I love You so much.. so much that I will obey. Bride-ly yours,  Charmie P. ❤️

Paano mainlove ang Kristiyanong Lalake? 👱🏼

Ito ang katuloy ng kuwento ko…☺️😉

Shinare niya sa akin kung paano niya niligawan yung kristiyanong babae na gusto niya. Sinend niya sa akin yung draft. 

Sa totoo lang habang binabasa ko yung draft niya, mas nangibabaw sa akin yung tanong na “Paano mainlove ang kristiyanong lalake?”

Paano nga ba?  


Yan yung draft niya. Huwag kayong mag-alala, humingi ako ng permission sknya. Hahahaha. 

Anong masasabi mo? 💭

Paano nga ba mainlove ang kristiyanong lalake? Kagaya ng sabi ko may dalawang klase ng kristiyano, yung isa rooted (kristiyano sa gawa) at yung isa naman simpleng kristiyano lang (kristiyano sa pangalan). 

Kapag nainlove ang rooted christian (kristiyano sa gawa) na lalake, he gets intentional. Ibig sabihin hindi lang siya yung lalake na puro pahaging lang o kaya paramdam lang, ito yung mga lalake na clear at pure ang intentions nila. Sila rin yung lalakeng tumatakbo muna sa Lord kapag nainlove, nagppray at humihingi ng confirmation. Hindi sila basta-basta gumagawa ng move hanggat walang GO signal ang Lord. Marunong silang mag-antay, marunong silang tumupad ng usapan at marunong silang rumespeto ng babae! 😉 Sila yung lalake na kapag nanligaw alam mong hindi magiging suntok sa buwan ang magiging relasyon niyo kasi para sa kanya kapag niligawan ka niya he has the intention to marry you. Ito yung mga lalakeng pinaghahandaan ka kasi alam nila na hindi ka basta-basta. Ibig sabihin, ito yung mga lalake na may standards. 

E paano naman mainlove ang simpleng kristiyano (kristiyano sa pangalan) na lalake? Para sa akin sobrang halata ang pagkakaiba. Ang simpleng kristiyano na lalake parang naglalaro lang yan. Lahat sknya medyo!! Medyo maayos ang buhay, medyo mahal ka, medyo man of God, medyo seryoso sayo, medyo lingkod ng Panginoon, medyo matino, lahat medyo! Kumbaga, nasa prosesa pa! Hindi sigurado sa bawat desisyon niya, hindi sigurado sa bawat ginagawa niya, hindi sigurado kung ano talaga ang gusto niya. Sila yung mga lalake na di marunong manligaw ng tama. Dinadaan lahat sa flirt, kasi alam nila na ang babae madali lang lumabot ang puso. 

Kung ang nanliligaw sayo ay isang rooted christian (kristiyano sa gawa), aba! CONGRATULATIONS! Pero huwag ka namang o-OO agad. Ipag pray mo din. Humingi ka ng confirmation sa Lord. Saka mahalaga ding kilalanin mo muna ng mabuti. Huwag tayong magpapadala sa panlabas na katauhan, get to know the person deeper! Iba din kasi kapag kilala mo yung tao. Alright? 😊

Kapag naman ang nanliligaw sayo ay simpleng kristiyano (kristiyano sa pangalan), pag isipan mo ng BONGGANG-BONGGA! HAHA! Please lang, huwag kang magpapadala sa emosyon mo! Haha. Hindi porke crush mo, o-OO ka na. Uulitin ko, utak muna bago puso. Test before you trust!! Alright? 😊

Gaya nga ng sabi sa Song of Solomon 8:4 “Promise me, O women of Jerusalem, not to awaken love until the time is right.”

Siguro ngayon napapaisip ka, may lalake pa bang rooted christian (kristiyano sa gawa)? Ang sagot ko, OO!! Sa totoo lang hindi sila hinahanap, kusa silang darating sa buhay mo. Gaya nga ng sabi ko, sila yung mga lalake na may standards. Nag iisip din yang mga yan. Nag oobserve. Nagppray. 

Hindi mo sila madadaan sa pa-cute mo, pa-charming mo, pa-flirt mo or anything na gagawin mo para ma-win sila, kasi para sa kanila mahalaga ang approval ng Lord. 

Sa totoo lang mataas ang respeto ko sa mga lalakeng kagaya niya, kagaya ng iba sa inyo. Saludo po ako! Ipagpatuloy niyo po! Ihawa niyo po yung tamang standard ng panliligaw. 😊 

Kayo po ang nagiging dahilan namin para maniwala sa GOD’S BEST! Kayo din po ang dahilan kung bakit tumitino ang ibang mga babae. Kayo din po ang dahilan kung bakit tumitino ang ibang mga lalake. Ipagpatuloy niyo po at ihawa niyo. 

Para sa bawat lalake na nagbabasa nito, if you do not have the intention to marry the girl, do not court her. Kaya mong mabuhay pansamantala na walang babae. Kaya mong maging masaya ng walang babae. Kaya mong ayusin yung buhay mo ng walang babae.

Take it easy, bro. God first! Take it slow! Kaibiganin mo muna. Ayusin mo muna buhay mo. Be financially stable, importante din yan. Mag plano ka muna bago ka gumawa ng move! 😊

Mabuti pa siguro na habang nag aantay ka sa sagot sayo ng Lord, habang nag aantay ka ng confirmation, mag equip ka ng mga kabataang lalake na susunod sa yapak mo. Mga kabataang lalake na marunong rumespeto ng babae, nakukuntento sa pagmamahal ng Lord, nakakapag antay, at inaayos ang buhay.👱🏼👮🏼

Psalm 37:4 “Take delight in the Lord and he will give You your heart’s desires.” 

PS: Sa aking kaibigan na nagbahagi ng kanyang kuwentong pag-ibig, SALAMAT! You inspire me to write and believe that there’s still God’s Best! Youre the man, Bro! God bless you! 👼🏼