Paano mag-antay ang Kristiyanong Babae?

  
Sa totoo lang isa sa pinakamahirap gawin ng isang tao ay ang MAGHINTAY!!! Kahit anong klaseng pag aantay pa yan, pare-pareho lang ng pakiramdam…NAKAKAINIP, NAKAKABAGOT, NAKAKAPAGOD, NAKAKALUNGKOT, NAKAKADISAPPOINT, lahat ng NAKAKA na mahuhugot mo ngayon sa kaibuturan ng puso mo, yon na yon!! HAHAHA.

Pero….PAANO NGA BA MAG-ANTAY ANG KRISTIYANONG BABAE? πŸ™†πŸ’†πŸ’‡

Sila yung mahilig mag FRIENDZONE!!!!! 

What??? Why??? How???

1. FRIENDZONE yourSELF

For no one has ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and tenderly cares for it, as the Messiah does the church. Ephesians 5:29

Meaning, mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo, you have to be happy with your own company first. You have to respect yourself first, YOU HAVE TO MATURE FIRST!! 

You cannot give what you do not have.

Kailangan BUO KA! Mahalaga din na dapat alam mo ang WORTH at ang VALUE mo ng sa ganon alam mong alagaan at respetuhin ang sarili mo. 

2. FRIENDZONE your FAMILY

Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you. Exodus 20:12

Be friend with your mom and dad and your siblings. Date them. Spend quality time with them. Sila naman muna. 

Bago ka makipag date sa crush mo, idate mo muna mga magulang mo.

Training begins at home!

3. FRIENDZONE your FRIENDS

Get a life!! Enjoy your life!! While you are still young, single and free, go out with your friends. BUT, please choose your friends.

Do not be deceived: bad company ruins good morals. 1 Corinthians 15:33

I don’t mean to say na layuan mo ang BI friends mo, I guess kailangan ka nila, make a difference to them. Sila ang mahawa mo, hindi ikaw ang mahawa sknla. Don’t pressure them to change, hayaan mo na ang pagbabago makita sayo. 

4. FRIENDZONE GOD

Ito pinakamahalaga sa lahat. Ang kaibiganin mo si Lord. Yung kaibigan na hindi lang basta kaibigan kundi iBESTFRIEND ZONE mo. 😊 Unahin mo si Lord sa lahat ng bagay. 

Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and ALL THESE THINGS WILL BE ADDED UNTO YOU. Matthew 6:33

Iba kapag same kayo ng heartbeat ng Lord. Alam mong secured ka, secured ang future mo. 

He promised us the BEST FUTURE: best job, best boyfriend, BEST FUTURE!!!

Kaya naman wag kang magmadali, MAG-ANTAY KA! ☺️ May nag aantay na the best para sayo. Focus ka muna sa Lord. Maximize your singleness to know God and serve God! 

5. FRIENDZONE your PARTNER

Take it slow. Kapag may napupusuan ka na wag ka naman agad agad magpapakita ng motibo. Mahalaga ding kilalanin mo muna. Mas okay yung friendship na pure ang intention. Iba pa din ang relationship na nagsimula sa friendship. 

Kung may nagugustuhan ka na kagaya ng lagi kong sinasabi, TAKBO KA SA LORD. ☺️ Pray! Pray! Pray! 

Two are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Respect eachother, pray for eachother, build up one another, support one another. 

The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. Lamentations 3:25


PS

I’d love to hear from you lalo na po sa mga gentlemen na nakakabasa nito. I’m planning to write again kung paano naman manligaw ang kristiyanong lalake. So guys, I’d love to hear a word from you. Please feel free to message me! God bless!